“The fallout from Engonga’s indiscretions also highlights the broader societal impact of unchecked impulses. Scandals involving public figures often breed cynicism, erode public morale, and diminish faith in institutions. When leaders demonstrate a lack of sexual discipline, it can foster a culture where accountability is questioned and where ethical boundaries appear blurred. In contrast, leaders who prioritize sexual discipline contribute to a culture of respect, transparency, and stability—qualities that ultimately support peace within communities and workplaces. This self-restraint creates an atmosphere where individuals feel secure, valued, and motivated to work toward shared goals, paving the way for genuine progress”.
Known for his role in maintaining financial integrity and security in the country, Engonga’s professional standing came undone when over 400 explicit videos surfaced, implicating him in compromising situations with several high-profile women. These revelations shocked the public and authorities alike, sparking outrage over the conduct of a man trusted with enforcing the law and safeguarding the nation’s financial interests. In the aftermath, Engonga was swiftly dismissed from his position, a decision that reflected the gravity of the situation and the loss of faith in his leadership.
This scandal serves as a sobering example of how a lack of personal discipline can have devastating consequences, particularly for those in positions of power. The actions of Engonga do more than damage his individual standing—they undermine public confidence in governance and raise concerns about the integrity of those entrusted with authority. Beyond the shock and intrigue, however, this case underscores an essential truth about the role of sexual discipline in achieving both personal peace and professional progress.
Sexual discipline is more than just a private matter; it is a critical factor in maintaining personal integrity and public trust. In Engonga’s case, the absence of such discipline led to his downfall, a reminder that the choices we make in private can have very public repercussions. Leaders especially are held to high standards of conduct, as their actions reflect on the institutions they represent. When individuals in influential positions fail to exercise restraint, they put their reputations, careers, and the credibility of their organizations at risk. Sexual discipline is, therefore, an indispensable trait for those aspiring to lead, as it forms the backbone of responsible decision-making and fosters an environment of respect and trust.
The fallout from Engonga’s indiscretions also highlights the broader societal impact of unchecked impulses. Scandals involving public figures often breed cynicism, erode public morale, and diminish faith in institutions. When leaders demonstrate a lack of sexual discipline, it can foster a culture where accountability is questioned and where ethical boundaries appear blurred. In contrast, leaders who prioritize sexual discipline contribute to a culture of respect, transparency, and stability—qualities that ultimately support peace within communities and workplaces. This self-restraint creates an atmosphere where individuals feel secure, valued, and motivated to work toward shared goals, paving the way for genuine progress.
On a personal level, sexual discipline empowers individuals to make choices aligned with their core values, allowing for inner peace and mental clarity. When one is consistent in both public and private behavior, there is less internal conflict and a greater sense of self-respect. This inner peace is vital for leaders, as it enhances their capacity to make sound, ethical decisions without being swayed by fleeting desires or hidden agendas. Leaders who cultivate this form of discipline set an example that encourages others to prioritize integrity and self-control, fostering a society where personal fulfillment and social responsibility coexist. As the scandal surrounding Engonga continues to unfold, you must understand that to leave a lasting, positive impact on the world, sexual discipline is not an option but a necessity, a practice that sustains both personal peace and the foundations of a trustworthy, progressive society.
Acts 15:29: That you abstain from things sacrificed to idols and from blood and from things strangled and from fornication; if you keep yourselves free from such things, you will do well. Farewell.”
Prof. Ofonime Emmanuel Bassey is a Leadership, Conflict, Peace, and Security Management Coach with decades of experience in the practice and promotion of Law Enforcement, Peace, and Security through the Nigeria Police and the United Nations.
He has served and interacted at the top level management of the Nigeria Police as well as internationally as a United Nation’s Monitor/Mentor in Kosovo, Europe.
Ofonime is a certified United Nation’s Trainer, and currently a Professor of Leadership, Peace, and Conflict Resolution with ICOF University, USA/Zambia and a Professor of Peace Education with Charismatic International University, Cameroon.
With his marks well-established in Peace Leadership both in Nigeria and Africa, he is the President, NISSI Safety Management Institute: An Institute famous for Peace Leadership.
Presently, he is spearheading a campaign tagged “The Next Peace Leaders”, a campaign that is billed to run from 2022-2030 with a target of training 37,000 young peace leaders.
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