“My widowed fiancé said I can only give birth to one child because he has three already. I want more than that, what should I do?” – Woman seeks advice

A lady anonymously on Facebook through @Kelvin Onovo, has come to share her dilemma with the public in the hope of receiving quality advice and suggestions.

She is to get married to a man who was widowed and already had three children with the late wife which she does not mind because she loves him.

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However, while discussing the number of kids they would both have, the man stated he only wanted one more child because of the other three. She, on the other hand, wanted more than one, at least two but the fiancé was adamant on bending his terms.

It was this that gave her sleepless nights and the advice from netizens was not helping matters. Read some of their comments:

Neni Enoja: Madam didn’t you see single men to marry na man wey get 3children already. There’s this joy when you’re having a child and it’s both your first. Let him look for a single mother like himself and marry.

Kecy Izuegbu: This means you don’t want to accept the three children as yours and that’s very bad..I hope you don’t maltreat them.

Nwankwo Pamela Nneka: He is looking for a nanny ooo

Ify Ayke Udejiofor: Run for your life oo. What if you give birth to triplets? Na you suppose dey give him conditions na, he’s a second hand husband for God’s sake and not the other way round. Haba…