“You are more attractive to a man when you don’t ‘need’ him” – Actress Shaffy Bello says as she encourages women to ‘bring something to the table’

Popular Nollywood actress, Shaffy Bello, has emphasized the need for women to contribute something substantial to their relationship or marriage.

She stated this in a recent chat with media personality Stephanie Coker on her podcast. This comes on the heels of the trending discourse about what women ‘bring to the table’ in a relationship.

According to Shaffy, it’s important for women to have something to offer a man in a dating relationship or marriage, just as men do.

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The 60-year-old thespian added that men find a woman more attractive when she doesn’t need him to do everything for her.

In her words;

“I would tell the ladies never tell a man ‘what do you mean? what do I bring to the table?’. I am not one of those. I think we both should ask ourselves what are we both bringing to the table. If he is bringing something to the table, What are you bringing to the table? I don’t want a liability if I am a man. I don’t want to marry a liability. As a matter of fact, you are even more attractive when you don’t need him. When you don’t need me, you are more attractive. You are just needy, that is not attractive”

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